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Alexis Bushnell

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Power and Ulysses pacts.

The corrupting influence of power has been on my mind a lot lately, both on a global scale, within smaller communities, and personally. I'm not going to discuss the global stuff here so let's start with why it's been on my mind personally and
25 Jun 2025 3 min read
5 square communication cards with cute chubby unicorns holding blank cards. On them is handwritten; I feel sad, I feel angry, I feel scared, I am in a trauma response, I feel insecure.

Communication for when you can’t communicate.

Sometimes I can't communicate effectively - that trauma life! But really, when I'm triggered (in the medical sense) or my nervous system is activated through intense anxiety, stress or sensory overwhelm, my brain goes into what's commonly known as "fight or flight"
25 Jun 2025 2 min read
Black text reading "live every day like Elle Woods after Warner told her she wasn't smart enough for law school" on a rainbow background of yellow, orange, pink, purple and blue.

How Legally Blonde saved my shitty week.

This week has been a lot about facing my social vulnerability. I am easily manipulated and taken advantage of by people because I take people at their word and give people the benefit of the doubt. And in the midst of the awfulness that causes, and the trauma that brings
22 Jun 2025 3 min read

Let’s talk about jealousy.

A partner once said, "you haven't got a jealous bone in your body" to me, he was mistaken but it inspired this writing. Being polyamorous people can assume that I never feel jealousy, but I do. I feel jealousy - but instead of lashing out and
13 Jun 2025 3 min read
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